Hui lawyer Duanchu trouble with the establishment of four right frame of mind

 Hui lawyer: Duanchu four trouble with the establishment of a correct attitude
four trouble
1, I see
Buddhism before learning accomplishment mm
each of us will agree that they saw is right, then saw his dedication to exclude others, attack others, when he has his own views, the hilarious refused to give up their wrong idea, this fallacy has been inherent in his reserves at any time he are to protect themselves, because he did not edge off raw edge of consciousness in life the truth, and that their insight is absolutely correct, is transcendent, eternal.
Why would quarrel between husband and wife? because of different views. brothers Why fight between? because of different views. superiors and subordinates, how will disputes? because of different views. Because of the strong I see each other a lot of unnecessary disputes between the mm that is our fundamental worry. So, the master to advise you and let us not talk Buddhist seeking relief, the current top priority should be to learn self-cultivation.
different people with their views, we should adopt a tolerant attitude to go with him. Simply put, views, opinions and we do not the same, does not mean that the other must be wrong. we first have to learn is not Buddha, but tolerance, forgiveness and tolerance. This basic training if available, would be no Buddhism, liberation, compassion, not to mention the so-called l pure heart ' was. So I have to see homes.
eliminate my opinion, the so-called condoned mm
I see, which means: my view necessarily. This idea to fix it. wise person, he would calmly listen to the opinions of others, making analysis, the acceptance of acceptable and unacceptable, coupled to filter and digested. but the most basic training, the most important tolerance, patience and forgiveness. If you can do it mm with my opinion, views are not the same, not exclusion from him, and never tolerate him, then your troubles will certainly greatly reduced, and only then can we entered the Buddhist's Elementary.
we must not allow its unhealthy state of mind, for example: words with harsh criticism or attack. speech is a superlative art, others because of your word and very happy, also because of your word and it is painful, then Why should we hurt other people's self-esteem then?
exchange position, Care mm
to exchange position if we can reduce the dispute because I see the sky. Our thinking within the heart often the case: the reason why today, he The idea would be to do this option, must have its reasons. If we learned one of the whole story, not only impossible to attack, hurt each other, and perhaps even admire him. matters should be the exchange of any position to each other other reasons, to be able to achieve two-way communication. If you can not do that, and its parent do not want to communicate with its parent is not willing to exchange views and is based on, I have to see homes.
enlarge breast volume, serene and at ease mm
genuine human life, looking for the successful awareness, not about the enjoyment of all flesh. have you ever heard any of the rich, is the name of Jesus Christ standing because of its wealth it? not. Only saints virtue they last forever. has always been king, more like river carp. If it was Shakyamuni Buddha throne, became king of India, then, today we have no way of knowing the person Shakyamuni Buddha. ask: king of ancient India, you know some it? reason Eternal Shakyamuni Buddha, because of his compassion, wisdom and enlightenment. two or three thousand years, by the Buddhist infection, Xunxi, Canada is, so leave suffering and attain Music beings no less than millions of people. Therefore, the greatness of Buddha, we find life in the awakening of consciousness. This is the most important issue today.
very sad that people are animals, and most will create suffering of animals. often just a little bit, but all day lip. originally only a small hole, but later got out of hand so much noise, and finally beyond repair. the town on trivial matters as bothered, worried immeasurable. So philosopher, said: l to trivial to immeasurable distress, life is too short. 'So, chest volume to enlarge it. When you enlarge the measure, we can truly live a quiet life. To rule I see, exchange would have to get the position, calmly thinking: Why do the other side of this choice.
2, I love putting the word
Lee, They came mm
l I love 'is the selfish, selfishness will guide people to go into the lost woods. a man obsessed with what they have to indulge in their own achievements, then this person has lost self. So, I love the concept must be round. because of selfishness, often makes us Im in trouble can not get rid of them.
bureau of the construction projects as an example of you is responsible for tendering the person A originally decided by a home licensed, high quality contract manufacturers, but another vendor happens to be what happens in the relatives, came to the person A says to: l, do not give the vendor contract, my price is cheaper than he can also let you take the rebate, or red envelopes of cash means it. 'At this point, you should be careful the. Sometimes we moment of choice errors, and even let you ruin. is only a little petty, but it will cause you bad, or even worthless.
Lee met l 'putting the word, you must To properly cool. as long as the impartial treatment, follow proper procedures and regulations, contract to the legal industry, even if the Chupi Lou, that vendor problem, the responsibility is not in you. If you thought to myself: (This price is cheaper manufacturers, they are my relatives, not to mention I can profit from it.) to the reluctance of the project contracts to their relatives, this way, if a problem occurs, then blame the.
love what you do do mm
l I love 'will make their own irrational, even in the face no choice dilemma. Therefore, we must return to rational and emotional balance. who is the greatest place to have feelings, and emotions must be based on reason, the reason should be built on the wisdom of the. means to support the rational wisdom, reason governs emotions, so that our heart to produce a correct level. then you will not be misled by their own life. As for the others they have no views, it simply is not important.
people are growing in the world which is full of distress, why? because we like to listen to good words, few people want to hear persecution, offensive language, but the saints are not. He clock are in the mentality of Thanksgiving, for language, my ears, grate on the ear, there is no personal likes and dislikes.
known great philosopher Socrates, and his wife, the shrew is well known, one Socrates's students did not understand: l teacher, you always taught us to compassion, tolerance, need to know the truth in life is the wife of the aggressive famous far and near, why do not you educate her? 'Socrates said: l because of her so aggressive, if I can tolerate her, people all over the world can tolerate it. 'This sentence thus became immortal line, which does include a deep knowledge and wisdom of life. which can be learned , even a bad person, he can accomplish our training.
so blessed to marry the person Hanqi. You should now be to change the perception of his wife, not always with her all day long quarrel. She fierce, you have to think: (I'm in the achievements of her accomplishment. So, that makes me tempted Ren Xing, I can not gain, and not my wife perfectly.) Thus, the concept of change about mm love what you do not only choose the things you love to do.
mm love what you do because you are married, it is impossible to change the fact, then, did you have to love yourself choice, accept the current situation and adjust their own internal, otherwise there is no way we will live. we can kind of popular front, split, resistance, change of mind about fighting chaos that everyone in the achievements of us, everyone to help us. good for us, and we learn from him; bad for us, and we give thanks. Well, l love this selfish 'will be enlarged. your enemy, your enemy will disappear. you do not treat the enemy, he will remain in front of you, because the enemy is own making.
the meaning of life in the awakening mm
because the concept has been unbreakable fetters, we always find a free way, so we have to accept the baptism of Buddhism. to accept the truth Xunxi, you can complete the awakening of life, otherwise what is the significance of life do?
not remember when Buddhist , every Mid-Autumn Festival Eve, about a week ago to begin to look forward to. to the Mid-Autumn day to about a girlfriend or a new park to the Botanical Gardens for a walk, then sit down in a daze, or else is to eat moon cake, drink tea, eat grapefruit, watching couples come and go ......< br> Every day we live life aimlessly. morning, toileting, washing, work, eating lunch, watching the stock market. After work, people with families rush back to cook, bachelors went to KTV, MTV and other entertainment fun, until coming home exhausted, and thus a loss, no gain to stay there one day. so, day after day, year after years to the day, having been old boss, but do not remember. He had never thought before, one day into the coffin lying, what their own can not take it.
Therefore, we should suddenly wake up, to start awareness: you The persistent body are not permanent. you are persistent lover, not eternal. you have dedicated money, is not eternal. So, whichever side the world is our real life? wisdom is our true life , serenity is what we really want to find, free, what we really want to pursue.
Shakyamuni Buddha once said: If you did not get relief this life, perhaps to Chores life after life, not necessarily every life, each world can be a man, not so cheap to do. If you can tell a man, then, oxen and horses who do that? Think about it, how can there be such a good thing? always someone to ride you, which of course impossible. causal law is fair, horses become people, people become horse, in this life you ride it, ride it for your next life.
If reborn as animals, big trouble, because Even Buddhism say, you do not understand ah! So, we love you for the money, fame, hue, men and women, of course, not completely round, but look very dull. However, we suffer from small schools, unless very special cause, or very little to teach us to pursue free and easy, comfortable, free thinking.
3, I slowly
wall of arrogance, self-restraint mm
l slow 'is the meaning of pride. In other words, self-esteem is too strong. As a long time to maintain their self-esteem too, so his heart which has become very sensitive and become nervous breakdown, another well-intentioned advice, he will be mistaken for a malicious attack with injuries. are too overly protective of themselves, so that the heart can not tolerate any one person, it is called pride, I am slow.
Everyone wants to be a Big Brother or Lao Dajie, to take care of others and protect others. we have compassion and love I hope to protect the weak. However, although some people can play their own compassion to protect the weak, but can not accept the advice of others, nor rejection of any person. As I slowly, so we long to live in ignorance of a strong ( no wisdom) in the. We fall into the trap of their own, each thing has its own views and do all sorts of self-assumption. could not break through these self-assumed, when the retention is their own views. As I slowly wall to block others, his view is always bound to see inside their own knowledge. I can not slow to accept his proposal of others, can not accept other people for their views, he believes this is a harm. Because of the strong self-concept , long years of living in a violent personality. we may observe the people around, whether male or female, all the public, as long as angry people all day long, he must be very proud of. pride and temper are linked, because he dissatisfied with others.
thankful, tame me to slow mm
often praise themselves. This state of mind how slow I tame? Just think: the world than how many good people? While we have little success in the community , but even a small cup eyes only, it must Jiashoutaren, can not create their own ah! we write with the pen, you can not create their own, but must rely on other people's production, so we should thank those who manufacture pen person. you invented the electric light? Of course not. So, who should be grateful to inventing the light bulb. We would like to thank the many, it is nothing to be proud of themselves. Even if you take the asphalt is laid workers. even manufacture of toilet people, scavenger, in my mind, are very great. because of the operation of the universe, life, body weight and some heavier, some lighter, but he still plays an integral role in a .
slow I is fundamental mm
impaired Road barrier Road, I was simply slow, Gould goes: l I slow mountain, leaving Germany and water. 'a virtuous person, definitely not proud of. a proud man , on the small amount of his chest, irascible temper, naturally there is no virtue to be close to people.
a virtuous person must have two words: mercy, compassion, joy, and release.
Ci mm is and music, to give you happiness. put your pain told him that he would have no conditions to help you.
mm is the Baku tragedy, what is your pain, he will remove you.
hi mm round hours of face is to maintain a loving heart, when you close to him, will feel very warm. The so-called l hope the gentleman is like that of too warm, listening to the words of Li. 'At first glance, and I'm serious, but you close to him, will feel he is very compassionate.
homes mm is giving, line homes.
wide Chin old monk told us: take themselves as the world's most useless people, our troubles to will be reduced. precisely because everyone thinks they are useful to the world, especially a great man, created trouble for the Yan. because since that great, self-esteem naturally lift very high, while others move it slightly in the following , high above the self-esteem is at stake. Therefore, the self is very ordinary, the heart is very calm. I think he is very ordinary, all of you here than I can, so when I hear people attack me, hurt me, slander me, I feel this is normal. because I used to be an unremarkable, even the people can say nothing, no advantage, the advantage is yours. Therefore, people have criticized me, for granted.
let you win, I do not consider themselves lost mm
Sakyamuni Buddha is the world's most extraordinary man, so he did not worry. but most people see themselves as the world's most amazing are the most extraordinary people, is also great because we perceived, not extraordinary, but the days of living unbearable annoyance. like our Legislature, all day fighting over, representatives of the people curse each other with each other. If you want a bit happier, We are on good Buddhist, Buddhist karma if, but missed a good opportunity, it is a very sad thing, because Buddhism is too great. So, I have maintained round the clock very happy mood. Now let me angry, I am afraid very difficult. Even so, it is quite rare. because when we have consciousness of life, of all the world to think that nothing dispute. you want to win, let you win I have not lost ah!
got angry with the two win, it would be better to turn the idea, let the other win, they would get relief. you want to win, but win the endless resentment; I throw in the towel, but lose the extremely happy, this way, who have to choose either lost, another who will win? have a very argumentative person, and must be camel, but although he won the verbal war, but won the agonistic, hardly sleep last night. for me to do is to prefer to admit defeat. anyway, and people do not argue, peace of mind, not the so-called outcome of winning or losing, of course, you can sleep very peacefully. In this case, we must select the input, and who To win? so without argument, what advice, common up to, good to review, do not roll your eyes, not angry, we cool to study and seek solutions.
to cure my slow, just do not take yourself so prominent, too self-expansion, even if you are a senior executive, must also be merciful to accept its views and recommendations, otherwise you will not hear their voices. so-called democracy is that it can accommodate more voice.
I slowly close to the authoritarian, too arrogant people, do not allow others to make any comments to him, and he also lost the opportunity to correct.
4, I'm not crazy
wisdom can not master my life mm
crazy, I mean that ignorance, not wisdom. with wisdom, can master their own lives. However, we did not wisdom, listening to people talk about right and wrong, immediately so, fall into the wrong ideas. For friends are saying, has not been verified, one for all, and no use of rational analysis and judgments, emotional recognition alone, so none of us really have their own lives. Our lives are vulnerable to the influence of others, because we do not have the wisdom .
Ignorance is the opposite of wisdom, not wisdom, of course, is ignorance. In the absence of wisdom, can not tell what's right or wrong, right and wrong, good and evil, therefore, because of someone else's word that he would live a very troubled also because of other people's words and live happily, so he has no real life. his life completely dominate in someone else's mouth, the language of others, the response of other people happy or sad, he has a real life true that .
the world without incident mm
ignorance of the people who engage in chaos all day long, do right and wrong, he did not do so, you will find hard to live.
As for the overhaul of the pedestrian be? he and Bono The differences? between the two do have this great difference. a Taichetaiwu person, even if there are any big things to him here, nothing. big strife, unrest, discontent, attacks, damage to his inner heart to come to naught. and we got wind that Bono is the rain, do not understand the whole picture, for there teeth. He can not stand people saying, can not stand other people's hurt, he wants praise of others. You think about it: If a person ask others to give praise, encourage, must by virtue of these, only the continuity of life, he really is a very fragile person. He needs to draw on others, rely on to complete within the heart. < br> do not need a man with great wisdom like slander outside, you are good to me, and I treat you; you I'm bad, I am still good to you. you are my good or bad, is your cause and effect; I'm good, it is my cause and effect. No matter who made good or committing evil, everyone must bear their actions cause and effect. manufacturing, must bear their own causal. a person is not so good, every day you praise him, he would become a Buddha; a person not so bad, you attack him every day, libel him, out of nothing, he will not go to hell, because a person must be responsible for their own cause. rather than With your language, you can judge a person's right or wrong.
micro-secret contemplation, as if fixed mm
hope you keep in mind: is not heard any, should be calm, check things clear. first shut my mouth, do not like the turkey-like crow and spread the rumors. about right and wrong, people have very poor, and listening to non-people are more miserable. you do not the parties, how to know with the wrong? how do you know what is right or wrong? We can not maintain a harmonious state of mind, because we split off self-consciousness. This is not someone imposed on us, but because he did not wisdom. you all day to accept incoming messages but confuse right and wrong.
fact someone else's right and wrong and irrelevant to our life and death. If we accept the influence of Buddhism, determined as a practitioner, it would be thick inner observing oneself , round the clock all who have decided to pay attention to their own, to manage his behavior is like, now on the first to do so. talking about mercy, it was still early enough, before learning not to get angry, it was not already the.
Second, a correct attitude
Below are some must adhere to the mentality of:
1, letter
can not grasp now to speak of mm
no eternal Dharma to be confident . you have to deeply understand that this world is impermanent, is bitter. here yes Saha world, few people are willing to say nice things Huoshi help you in, most people are been holding you back. interest relations are not already in conflict, once conflict of interest played, even if the father, mother, brothers and sisters, good friends, will turn, and turn faster rate than open book. This is the corrupt world, is not bliss, so, in order to interest and disowned the situation is not uncommon.
can not grasp now, you are not eternal at all. Why? because eternity is now a fixed point for each connection made. can not grasp now, you do not have the future. Now life is better than all of life. the so-called: l the hands of a bird, two birds better than air. 'Can you grasp what is now is now. So do not mind the old plan was: (I do after five years What ......) five years, you have the crematorium into a pile of ashes. You Did not anyone Telecommunications premature death? Of course there ah! deaths of young people all the time ah! So, to remind ourselves to see others die, should be convinced of Buddhism, a good Buddhist.
clarify the concept of Buddhism mm
previous exclusion of people are Buddhist, because he was mistaken for the Shinto Buddhism, will be Folk Beliefs of shamans, burning gold so as to Buddhism. In fact, these do nothing to do with Buddhism. On one occasion, a legislator said to me:
l Hui lawyer, Buddhism is so you wasted. '
I continued to ask: l how do you say?'
he replied: l like the salt town of Fang Feng guns, expensive down time, it is too wasteful. '
I heard really ridiculous to say to him: l you are mistaken, this event did nothing to do with Buddhism, Buddhism is neither killing nor the culture mediums, it is a pure Sangha, led by beings seeking truth, seeking relief, is a very great, philosophical, superb organization, and shamans of the Phoenix Hall can be described as irrelevant. '
have an even more outrageous. We are to worship auditorium next door They invited a flower truck to perform, the girls dressed in hot vehicle, singing and dancing, just stopped at the auditorium door. Some people respond to us: l Master, how do you please come and perform in this team? really unsightly! 'This is really odd, I'm afraid have to ask the arbiter to hear honesty and righteousness, to return our innocence of the. Buddhism, so how could it? many of the world and a number of high officials who were simply confused Buddhism What is extolled. Buddhism is neither burning paper offerings, and not throwing divination blocks, no mediums, and no flower truck, and so were all no. Buddhism is a very ordinary group, normally do is chanting, bowing, talking about is a Buddhist, philosophy of life, that is all, and its goal of guiding the people into the consciousness of the area hope that we can clarify the concept of Buddhism, and then have confidence, if not confidence, then, anything out of discussion.
2, fine But the idea of impermanence into
, Shenwu Romantic and Uncontrolled mm
because life is uncertain, so we must seize the time, a good diligent. to Yin Kuang, for example, his room furnishings are very simple: a lamp, a table, several Buddhist, hard and simple bed and blankets, in addition, no nothing. cut off all the outer edge, chanted continuously from morning till night, Forty-nine times a day, Amitabha by l To 'and l do not'. send brave heart to be diligent is easy, but it is difficult to persevere. because we will be tired, be tired today. friends to drink tea, chat, tomorrow we go visit a friend .... .. daily comings and goings, many foreign, over time, the heart scattered. lazy is easy to slack off, it is difficult to be diligent. Romantic and Uncontrolled heart, and once retrieved. So, we are always living beings With sentiment in the practice by. feel good, to desperately hard, and I feel bad for homework dismissive. ups and downs of living beings is one such practice.
I suggest that the bureau, and if circumstances permit, you can follow the example of Chang Gung Memorial Hospital the establishment of a small temple, the pillars of the spirit as you. Police colleagues why the frequent suicide? is due to the life, understand life, not perspective, otherwise they never dare to commit suicide. police unit attached to a temple if it fear is only a very small area of a place also does not matter, then, instilling the concept of cause and effect policing colleagues, suicide, the truth and so on. religious beliefs are important to them to set up a temple, so that everyone in his spare time, there is a place can be sophisticated.
really sophisticated when the ground hard mm
mind, of course, may not be too sophisticated Buddhist Buddha in the temple, the Buddha, was called sophisticated. Buddhism on the definition of sophisticated is: twenty-four hours pay attention to his idea from the heart, do not let it fall into the pain and worry among the opposition do not let it fall into the concept, it always keep sinking to pure, sincere Santa Claus, this side that the real sophistication.
concept to most people, think sophisticated is hard in the temple in the Buddha, Buddha, everyone knows, one out of the temple, others a little offended, immediately issued a grievance Ming. In Buddha temple was seriously loud, stepped out of the temple is also inviting throat, loud arguments and people really l stagnation in 'personality did not change completely. Some Buddhist three years, not only temper did not change, and have actually intensified, anyway he was not afraid of anything, did nothing to fear. learn more the more this kind of bad, we really Mokenaihe. Therefore, the real sophistication and work hard to take from the heart.
3, ashamed of the heart
Happiness is wisdom mm
ashamed to be pregnant with the heart. ashamed of the heart the heart is good. l shame 'is sorry for myself, l shame' is unworthy of the others. inside our hearts, every day in the dispute. The reason that the the feeling of a dispute, because we can not stand the grievance. We always feel that they are wronged, but I'm sorry other people have never thought of their own.
have a heart, whether you are Buddhist or not, should be endowed, so that it can live Happy, happy, beautiful day. the so-called: l happiness is wisdom. 'wise man, only happiness at all; not wisdom, though wealthy, and even the property of the world has no use.
ashamed heart is Bodhicitta mm
please remember two words: l every reflection, I am sorry I have no others, I'm sorry we do not care whether other people. 'This is the first sentence. The second saying is: l per days should be the case reflection, I live up to their responsibilities? Do not blame nobody else doing my duty, but to review their own and do not blame others. 'With shame the heart of a man, his concern is: I have not sorry others, rather than all day long held the faults of others, or asking someone else: I'm sorry how do you like me? ashamed heart is very important. a shame people can l day center three times daily ', will go to a supernatural power, good self-reflection.
ashamed heart is compassion, and in the responsible for the behavior, not unworthy of the others. When we feel worthy of conscience, the others what to say to no longer important.
4, Wutan
Wutan is cool can not have greed mm
. we often because of greed, which runs the risk. When your heart Wutan, it will feel cool by. we get ill-gotten gains, for fear became public, and live the life nervous, fearing being found that and why? get some money, but added pressure of the infinite mind. If I absolutely do not do that. would rather not have the money, and live peace of mind, happy day.
most people are living the wrong time, like it was a small profit, has increased the pressure and burden of a long day and restlessness, nightmares at night, really not worth it. belong to us, we have to take for granted; should not be us, and we Do not take ordinary.
insatiable greed annoying mm
people who do not, everyone likes to make friends with him. greedy people everywhere are welcome. One time, Chengkungling military training, National Chung Hsing University and marine college students at the same table. That ocean college students, look sturdy, big burly. eat breakfast, do not take into account the same table who did not eat, breath and put the dishes are relying on to their bowl, we were all to training, he is especially greedy. A National Chung Hsing University students advised him not to, he Zhangshi his tall and strong, not only did not listen, but also arrogant to say with words: l you think you are ah? 'Chung Hsing University, took his name out of the students, apart from anything else, gave him a punch as a result, lost two teeth, bleeding profusely. to eat a few peanuts, a few pieces of tofu, but the loss of two teeth, is really worthwhile. Thus, greedy people, we all hate.
if the financial capability, we should have to charity, but within their means. can you give, the people, we all like him. Therefore, it should be Wutan, do not have greed.
5, no anger
Buddhists the most important thing is to learn temper. temper is very bad habits. Men in particular should pay attention to public because they are smaller than the cultivation of female public. On the women's congregation, they are less likely to get angry, they are very good. (because of the presence of all the majority of women, so I can not tell them anything, otherwise I can later on the trouble ......) In fact, all the angry men have a limit, all women are not, often a temper is no trivial matter, and even gone too far. We have to learn not to get angry, because the group atmosphere very important, when someone lost his temper, will be filled with the smell of gunpowder, a harmonious atmosphere to be destroyed.
there is a man is not angry, but silent on this worse than angry. day stretch a face is not speech. If asked him: l You are not angry? '
he snappily replied: l Hell, I do not get angry!'
If asked him: l Why are you upset? '
he would say: l I am very happy ah!'
l not mind if you say this morning that sentence? '
l ah who cares? I will not then there is no training miles! '
short, his face has filled unhappy, he would not admit it. So, will temper the distance between themselves and others more distant, since people did not dare to get close to you. So , we should smile, that smile, is not small. not to put pressure on other people's hearts, not in groups create an atmosphere of low pressure, is a really intelligent person.
6, no crazy
no means crazy is not ignorance, to have wisdom. hope you have confidence on the treasures, as circulation of tapes and try to see the Buddha book. I wrote the . If you want wisdom, should listen to speeches, audio tapes. is now very well developed science, audio and video tapes are very common, I believe all of you, most have heard the master tapes speech. After listening to the tapes themselves, may wish to transmitted others, so that others can listen to by the press law, be the supreme Law of joy. make others happy, you are the messenger to spread love. And do not be silly, the most concrete way is to listen to by the press law, listen tapes. because the world, in addition to intelligence, there is no anything is eternal.
7, the inner serenity
settle all mm
to settle inside our hearts, with a very precious thing, that is, mm serene. calm mind is to have a happy and tranquil inside the inner ...